This particular blog may not be for everyone, my usual blogs are informative small tutorials or success tips on SEO, web design/development and internet marketing. I write to pass on hints and methods for achievement in this always evolving technological world we live in. This specific blog will piece together the other important components for true success and happiness in our corporate always busy life.
This important factor is everyday family life. We all have them, some families are different than others some are more fortunate than others. But family is family. What we as adults tend to forget is the smaller things in life that really sets the benchmark . We all get caught up with all the technology , working late hours to give the family that extra cash, facebook updates , bbm, emails that you could be sitting in the same room with all your family and not one word spoken between anybody cuz everyone is on their mobile or PDA devices. Take this as a friendly reminder. I was living proof, so…. This moment stop with the bbm, log off facebook, and read this article.
A family unit is the unit which builds up a person’s personality can be the source of strength , driving force or even their sanctuary . How we behave and what we become in life is very much dependent on your family life. Psychologists believe that a child learns the most from his or her family life. The way your family members deal with you has a life long effect on your personality. Although time brings this change but the importance of family remains there. The children who have a sound family background and who belong to a family with strong family ties are almost always happier. Thus one cannot deny the importance of family life.
Families are the essential building blocks of any society and happy families make a happy society. Everyone wants to live in a happy family as family is the place where human beings find the accomplishment of life. Modern families often face multiple relationship issues which have emerged as contribution of the changed lifestyle and les intense relationships.
In more of a direct way , its not where we have been in our lives but where we are going. For the less fortunate stop the repetitive vicious circles…. stop and enjoy your family . Below are some tips on how to accomplish exactly that … here comes a blog post for any corporate father.
Presence and interaction with Each One in the Family
Presence is the most important solidifying factor that enriches the family relationship. Parents should be available for kids in each of their needs and similarly the couples each other. Never take the work stress or other unwanted tensions home. As you step into the home, the prior concern should be home only.Make time to interact with each of the member and schedule family adventures for the entire family to take part. Considering each of the family members equal and not being partial to anyone is the best qualities a family member can posses
Give Affection and Warmth
Many people say that they love the family and when it comes to the action they remain unexpressive and quite. Family is the place one learns the basics of love, affection, warmth, encouragement and sharing. Express your affection and attachment towards other members in family with gestures, action Tell your kids and partner you love them. Tell or even text your partner good morning beautiful, that simple text … Those simple words make such a big difference. It sets her pace for her happy day. Telling just the three words ‘I love you’ makes others understand the depth of your concern for them.Do not miss an chance to be affectionate with the spouse and kids. Let the entire family move on experiencing a warmth feeling. Unexpressed love is equal to no love at all. Weekly outdoor dinners, monthly pleasure trips, family shopping, visiting relatives, family cooking day , when a family plays together it stays together .
Communicate Frequently and Effectively
Communication is the key to build a happy family. Be positive in your communication within the family . Talk to each other in the family frequently and designating family together times every day is helpful to this purpose. Even between the spouses, talking eases the tensions and promotes the attachment. Never argue or shout at each other unnecessarily. Family should be a place everyone wants to be with always.
Fights, Faults and Fury are Destructive
Parents should be aware and careful not fight before the kids and sling faults at each other. expressions of anger is also equally destructive. When one of the family members makes the entire family life worse with such negative expressions, others may feel family as a disliked place to be. When parents fight before the kids, they are, in fact, teaching the kids with a wrong lesson of communication. Children of fighting parents may become rebels and antisocial in the future life.